These are the ports for server-to-server connections. You’re using the same ports in client-to-server too, this can’t work. Decide which ports to use for one and what ports to use for the other. Usually the default values are fine.
The log also notifies you of a missing trusted.pem file in tigase-kontalk. Please copy a certification authority you have (use your CA if you have one) into a PEM file named trusted.pem. It isn’t really used, it’s just to make Tigase work (WIP on that with the Tigase team).